being extra caring must not mean to be through advance notice.
being extra caring can be backing up each others back.
if someone close to u, and u think it wld be impossible to talk sense into, why not try supporting.
if it ends up falling down, why not be extra caring by supporting from the back. everyone has to fall before they are able to learn.
this kind of stuff is different from saving someone ass from some gangster shit.
this kind of stuff more to the relation side.

i m not being insulting, humiliating, gossiping, backstabbing.
neither m i going against anyone. i would just say different interpretations n perceptions.
if you are true to someone, u do things willingly, without expecting any in return.

what make me have all this thoughts.
firstly, i have to tell myself to think in this way. everyone has their own life.
u guys go in ns with someone u know be4 u enter ns.
as for me. i m going in alone. i m freakin doing things alone.
since i have to do things alone. then i have to tell myself its my life tts y i m doing things alone.

P.S: i know time has change, people will change too. but i'm sorry. people fall in different ways.
and they climb out of it learning in different mindsets.